Membership

Choose your level of intention.

Every woman arrives at RL with a different vision for what she is ready for.Some are looking for access to a thoughtful, like-minded community. Others want a more personal and guided experience.There is no right way to begin. Choose the experience that reflects where you are now and the relationship you are ready to create.

The Intentional

Join our vetted community to access member events, networking, and consideration for future introductions.

For the woman who wants to be part of a thoughtful community and stay open to the possibility of a meaningful connection.

Community access, member-only content, virtual and in-person event access, and priority consideration for matches (no guaranteed introductions).

Apply to join. Screening is required. Vetted members will be invited to join the RL Patreon community.

The Selective

Focused, high-touch matchmaking with 3-6 curated introductions over a selected 3 or 6 month time frame.

For the woman who is serious about finding a highly compatible partner and wants hands-on guidance throughout the process.

Comprehensive intake; personalized sourcing from inside and outside our community, date planning, pre and post-date debriefs, and monthly strategy calls.

Apply. Once reviewed, you will receive an email to schedule an intake video call. Limited spots available.

Membership details

Membership details are shared after the application process. Every applicant is thoughtfully considered, and the appropriate level of support is discussed based on your goals, preferences, and what you are ready for.

RL welcomes applicants from around the world. Many women are open to long distance relationships, travel, relocation, or meeting someone whose life is not limited to one city.

Apply to RL Matchmaking

Your person isn't waiting for you on another dating app.

Apply to RL Matchmaking. We read every application ourselves.