How it works
Four steps, and a real conversation at each one.
RL is deliberately slower than an app. Every step exists to protect the quality of the introduction you eventually receive.
01
Apply
Tell us who you are and what you're looking for.
The application is deliberately thorough. It is the beginning of a conversation, not a form to rush.
02
Get vetted
Every applicant is reviewed before entering the RL network.
We read every application. Some women are a clear yes, some are a not yet, and we say so honestly.
03
Get matched
We identify women who align with your values, lifestyle and relationship goals.
Fewer names, better reasons. You'll know why an introduction was made before you meet.
04
Meet
Receive intentional introductions instead of endless swiping.
We handle the introduction, the context and the follow up. You handle dinner.
What you won't find here
- — No public profiles, no follower counts, no swiping.
- — No introductions we can't explain to you in a sentence.
- — No guarantees about love. Only about standards.
Apply to RL Matchmaking
Your person isn't waiting for you on another dating app.
Apply to RL Matchmaking. We read every application ourselves.